Posted by 稻田·* 粒粒芳香 > 2017-01-09 10:01 | Report Abuse

Good morning 3iii and all...

Have a productive week ahead.

Posted by 3iii > 2017-01-09 11:47 | Report Abuse

>>>17. It is better not to expect anything from your children to avoid disappointment.<<<


A better way is to keep YOUR expectations low in this relationship.

This means that you will often be surprised by the rewards (however minimal) derived from this relationship.

Also, because the expectations are low, they are easy to be fulfilled or exceeded by the parties in the relationship..

It is true, the happiest relationship is derived from the one where each party in the relationship expects little from the other.

Posted by 3iii > 2017-01-09 13:03 | Report Abuse

<<< Make peace with your past so it won’t mess up the present. >>>


Very insightful.

Yes, who in this world does not have problems.

I will advise ranking these problems from the most insignificant to the most severe, in that order.

I will be surprised if anyone has more than 6 or 7 problems that are bugging them at anytime.

Start solving these, starting with the most easily solvable ones.

Ignore the insignificant .. for example, some of the emotional unsubstantiated comments in this forum.

Some problems may not be solvable. Just know them, and keep them in your to solve list or insolvable list.

As mentioned, either times heal or things change with time.

Live on and enjoy living.

Communicate well, negotiate by giving in first (when you are in the position) and find resolution to most of the above in your list.

Posted by geary > 2017-01-09 13:48 | Report Abuse

Wise advice indeed! Wish Uncle Koon the very best of health and happiness! May God bless you!!!

Posted by 3iii > 2017-01-09 15:39 |

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